If you could really start living the life of your dreams at this very moment, what would your life look like? What would you be doing differently than you have done in the past? Is someone else controlling you and stopping short any plans you have for yourself? Maybe it is time to take charge and reclaim your life dreams. Refuse to let “dream robbers” snatch away your future. Step out of your comfort zone and start living the life you have desired. Evaluate what steps you need to take to set the wheels in motion. Perhaps you need added education in order to better prepare you for an exciting career, or maybe like me you want to relocate. It is never too late to follow your dreams and add color and dimension to your life.
I use examples of courageous women in “You Lost Your Marriage Not Your Life” to encourage you to step out of your comfort zone. My three beautiful friends, Karol, Marilyn and Barb are living examples of amazing women who had a vision for their life and refused to let “dream robbers” hold them up and steal their future! They did not allow it and neither should you.
If you are surrounded by critical people who have nothing positive or uplifting to offer, maybe you need some new friends who will give you the support you need. I had so many people trying to discourage me from moving to Naples, Florida, but not my closest friends that I trusted the most, they all encouraged me to do what I want to do.


Barbara is a writer, public speaker, and independent Medical Esthetician. Through her work the author has met dozens of divorced women who torture themselves with a life of regrets. The author shares her own personal journey through divorce, financial loss and despair, then provides examples to encourage the reader to let go of all inner conflict and replace it with peace and joy. Through "You Lost Your Marriage Not Your Life" Barbara teaches you how to release all self-defeating inner dialog that compromises your life and keeps you paralyzed with fear. The author's gentle and encouraging, yet straight forward approach, teaches that when healing comes to our thoughts, it comes to our life!